7 years minus 1 day & I still miss you

August 26, 2012 at 9:14 pm | Posted in after death?, Grief, hydrops, Time | 15 Comments
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It has been said, ‘time heals all wounds.’ I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone.  Rose Kennedy

Dear Jake,
Tomorrow it will be 7 years since your Dad and I held you. I am still not sure how anyone got me to leave the NICU that Friday night.  I have nothing really new to tell you.  It is another day without you.  Tomorrow will come and you will officially be gone for 7 years.  The numbers do not matter.   I will miss you forever.  Love you always.  I will look for you in my dreams.

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  1. Thinking of you always and especially now.

  2. Love you and big Hugs to all of you.

  3. So sad and confusing how time passing makes the absence both harder and easier. Big hugs.

  4. Lots of love to you guys. xo

  5. You are in my thoughts and in my prayers. Love to you and yours.

  6. Praying for you today…. sending hugs to you.

  7. Thinking of you and sending lots of love your way. Impossible that so much time has sailed by.

  8. I am thinking about you Lanie. I hate these days. xoxo

  9. Thinking of you Lanie and sending lots of love and hugs. These days are so hard.

  10. –Thinking of you today.

    Mourning is born, but NEVER dies….

    much love & hugs from Minnesota. X

    btw, whoever uttered “Time Heals All Wounds”- obviously has not experience death or pain…

  11. I’m so sorry for your loss. It will be two years soon for losing my Asher. My heart aches for us both. God Bless

  12. You are all in our thoughts–as always!

  13. Short, poignant, raw, true.
    I couldn’t have said it better myself.

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