Better
October 8, 2012 at 11:50 pm | Posted in Grief, life lessons, Love, normal? | 9 CommentsTags: child loss, death of a baby, grandparents, gratitude, hospice, Jake, life after loss, Sawyer
I have written before how I am so very lucky for my grandfather. I know that he will not live forever. It was never the plan for him to outlive me. I know that is not what he would want. It defies the circle of life that Evan and I have outlived 2 of our children. Jake and Sawyer were supposed to bury us.
My grandfather is now in hospice. Although life is going in the natural order – it is still hard. I do not want to see my grandfather in pain. I want to make it easier. I do not know what to do except what I have always done – love him unconditionally. And, appreciate how much better the world and my life is because of him.
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A Mourning Mom 
I am so sorry to hear he is in hospice. Praying for you friend. Sending hugs to you from MN.
Comment by Kristen— October 9, 2012 #
He is an incredible guy, and I am lucky to have known him. Keep on loving — it’s what you can do and what he needs too. Wishes and good thoughts for you and your family.
Comment by Daphne— October 9, 2012 #
Thinking of you Lanie. I am sorry to hear about your grandfather. But how proud he must be of you and all your courage and strength. Sending love to you, unconditionally.
Comment by Amy Johnson— October 9, 2012 #
100 years old is quite an accomplishment for him. I hope that he does not suffer and that your Mom, you, your whole family can enjoy what you have left with him. praying for you all.
Comment by Susan FB— October 9, 2012 #
And he is lucky to have YOU in his life! Just keep remembering and reminding yourself and him of the great things you’ve shared together…
Comment by Eden— October 9, 2012 #
Grandparents are definitely awesome. You are right – just give him all the love you can. Thoughts and prayers coming your way.
Comment by aslongasimliving— October 9, 2012 #
I am so sorry to hear about your grandfather, Lanie. I know you and your family will miss him terribly. He left a wonderful legacy behind. What a gift to have known your own great-grandchildren and to have touched so many generations of a strong, loving family. You are all in my prayers….
Comment by Kathie— October 9, 2012 #
Love and hugs to you and gentleness for your grandpa Lanie. Xoxo
Comment by Debbie— October 10, 2012 #
I just wanted to let you know that I discovered your blog today and I’ve added it to the site http://www.scoop.it/t/grief-and-loss that I have created in memory of my 23 year old son who died suddenly 21 weeks ago.
Comment by grahamforeverinmyheart— October 17, 2012 #